Life can be full of work, friends, travel, sports, and hobbies—a richness that doesn’t always rely on having children or grandchildren. Yet, for some of us, the idea of becoming a grandparent carries a unique appeal: the joy of doting, baking cookies, sharing cuddles, and, best of all, handing them back to their parents afterward.
It’s a thought that has crept up more often as the years pass. While I’ve always been happy without kids of my own, there’s something about the role of a grandparent that feels different—joyful, lighthearted, and full of love without the weight of parental responsibility. Sometimes, I wonder: what if it were possible to step into that role for someone else?
For those of us without children, this dream might seem just out of reach. But what if it didn’t have to be? What if becoming a grandparent figure could open doors to new relationships, adventures, and moments of connection that enrich not just a child’s life, but our own as well?
Turns out, I’m far from alone. In Germany, about 25% of women born in the 1960s never had children, according to the Federal Statistical Office. And among those who did, many have children who have decided against starting families. Increasingly, more of us are finding ourselves in what you might call the “No-Granny Zone.” While my friends might not openly discuss it over cappuccinos, I know I’m not the only one who feels like they’re missing out on something…grand.
But hey, I love kids. Always have. I’m the type who waves at babies on the train, chats with toddlers in grocery store lines, and sneaks extra candy to my friends’ kids (with their parents’ side-eye approval). And honestly, the older I get, the more I love the idea of being a grandparent. You know, all the love and silliness without the 3 a.m. diaper changes or high-stakes PTA meetings.
One day, while lamenting my grandchild-less state, I stumbled upon a book that felt like it was written just for me: Als Granny Aupair in die Welt by Michaela Hansen. It wasn’t just a book—it was a revelation. The concept is simple yet genius: women (and yes, men too!) of a certain age can travel the world and become “Granny Au Pairs,” living with families who need a bit of extra help with childcare.
Imagine it—packing your bags, immersing yourself in a new culture, showering love on children who aren’t your own, and leaving the messiest responsibilities behind. It’s like hitting the grandparent jackpot! Plus, it’s not just about helping families. It’s about forming bonds, experiencing life in a new way, and rediscovering the joy of connection across generations.
Why Go Granny Au Pair?
Let’s talk benefits because there are plenty. For starters, this isn’t just about providing love—it’s also about receiving it. Studies show that intergenerational relationships can reduce loneliness, improve mental health, and even increase longevity. It’s good for the soul and the heart.
There’s also the joy of cultural exchange. Living in a new country gives you the chance to truly immerse yourself in local traditions. You don’t just visit France; you become a French Granny, baking pastries with the kids and swapping your stories for theirs.
And let’s not forget the adventure. The Granny Au Pair life isn’t just about babysitting. It’s about stepping out of your comfort zone, making new friends (of all ages), and embracing the possibility of a second act that’s as exciting as the first.
Wrapping It Up
So, here I am, 54 and dreaming of being someone’s Granny. Maybe not in the conventional sense, but in a way that suits me just fine. The Granny Au Pair concept is proof that it’s never too late to find your tribe—or your family. And of course, this also works for grandpas these days. For those who don’t want to travel too far, many cities offer grandparent services for single parents.
Because sometimes, family isn’t about blood—it’s about heart. And as for me? My heart is ready, suitcase in hand.
